
Inside the Donor’s Mind: A Fundraising Deep Dive
Simon recounts the top tips from his recent Major Donor event of 2024, hosted by the Chartered Institute of Fundraising’s Major Donor Special Interest Group!
1. Treat your donors like humans.
Spend as much time speaking to them and understanding their motivations, not just in philanthropy but in life more generally. What keeps them up at night? What are they excited about? Donors want to be heard and have meaningful relationships — like the rest of us!
2. Case support vs business case.
Are your written materials reflecting the language, data and information that high-net-worth individuals will be used to seeing? Take time to refine the language you use in your proposals and reports — and ask your donor what they want to see the most.
3. Shifting the culture on internal KPIs.
We know this isn’t possible for everyone, but if you have the power to build in more relationship-building KPIs as a measure of success, you could see better results over a longer period of time. The average major gift takes 18 months on average to come in, and the largest gift is usually a donor’s seventh. It takes a lot of patience and relationship-building to achieve that.
4. Don’t be scared of highlighting the importance of unrestricted gifts.
Many donors don’t know or understand the value of unrestricted giving. Isabelle encouraged us all to feel confident in educating our donors, as it is usually well received!
5. Know your own charity’s endowments, investments, and ESG policies.
This is something many donors are asking for. Swot up before your next donor meeting by looking at your annual accounts or internal policies.
6. Donor Advised Funds (DAFs) are booming.
These low-cost/low-admin structures may be less transparent or harder to prospect, but they are only going to increase. It may be worth exploring blended portfolios as more major donors move to formal giving vehicles.
7. No professional advisor will tell someone where to put their money.
Working with wealth advisors can help build an understanding of your charity. Fundraisers are in a great position to educate donors and advisors alike – take the opportunities when they come!
Category:Fundraising

Written by
Simon Callaghan
Partner
Simon Callaghan leads the Fundraising and Marketing and Communications Recruitment teams at Peridot. He has successfully recruited key roles for national and international charities, including the International Rescue Committee, WWF, The Prince's Trust, Prostate Cancer UK, and The Royal Marsden Cancer Charity. His work with the International Rescue Committee was instrumental in their team winning the Institute of Fundraising's Fundraising Team of the Year award.
Beyond his professional achievements, Simon is deeply committed to the fundraising sector. He serves on the committee of the Institute of Fundraising's Major Donor Special Interest Group, promoting shared learning and best practice. Simon advocates for increasing the presence of professional fundraisers on trustee boards, collaborating with chairs and CEOs to bring in first-time trustees with income generation expertise.
When not working in fundraising, Simon enjoys a wide range of music, supports Norwich City Football Club, is an enthusiastic golfer, and finds entertainment in his two young sons' antics.
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